DEAR ABBY: My brother just got engaged to the “WOAT” (Worst of All Time). They have been dating for 2-1/2 years, and nobody in the family has anything good to say about her.

Would it be too drastic to tell him it’s a bad idea? I was going to say I support him if he can find three redeeming qualities in her because none of us can find one. -- NO FAN OF HER IN THE EAST DEAR NO FAN: I do not think telling your recently engaged brother that his fiancée is the “worst of all time” and no one in the family can find any redeeming qualities in her would be welcomed.

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They have been dating for 2 1/2 years, and nobody in the family has anything good to say about her. In the past, he always had stable relationships with girls we really enjoyed. But now he’s getting older,

No one in the family likes this woman. And the couple argues endlessly. Will older brother's advice turn this ship around?

I do not think telling your recently engaged brother that his fiancée is the “worst of all time” and no one in the family can find any redeeming qualities in her would be welcomed. I do think, however,

I was going to say I support him if he can find three redeeming qualities in her because none of us can find one.

I'm worried about my brother. From constant arguments to multiple job changes, my family is worried that he's settling for less with his new fiancée. Should we intervene?